Allow the inner child back into your life

The Inner Child Cards are a tool in working with your inner child. The set contains 45 cards.

A booklet with explanations can give you insights about facets of your life that deserve attention.

Look at the symbol and let it work on you.

Every week you will see a different symbol here with a short explanation.

Henk Meulendijks

accept where you are

week 35

Accept where you are

The current situation is there for a reason. If it hurts, we do not want it, we stuff it away. But what is the result? Nothing at all, you save the pain for later, along with a growing fear of the pain. Accept what is now, observe and do something with it, talk to your inner child and help him with the situation, to let go of the pain, to heal…

Discover yourself and free yourself from the pain of your past.
Recognize this:

  • Don’t you always have your emotions under control?
  • Do you find it difficult to maintain relationships?
  • Do you feel dependent on the love of others?
  • Do you allow others to hurt you over and over again?
  • Have you been (sexually) abused in the past?
  • Can’t you stand yourself?
  • Do you get depressed often?
  • Don’t you know who you are?

Then inner child work is something for you.

Remember this?
It’s still there… inside you…
and waiting for you!

In our daily lives we often react from the pain of our past. Usually we’re not aware of that. This pain is stored in our energy system as a kind of “energetic wounds”. This pain comes from unresolved experiences from our youngest youth.

In an extreme sense, this is a form of physical and/or energetic abuse. But even seemingly small incidents can be (from the child’s perspective) traumatic. The child’s basic needs are then not met.

Inner child work is an instrument for self-development.

With this instrument you get in touch with a part of you called the inner child. This part of you carries all the memories from your childhood. You can help your inner child as a wise, loving parent to deal with pain. It heals the wounds and they are no longer triggered in adulthood.

The healing has begun…